Choose a passage from the McIntyre reading that describes a particular aspect of persons as the subject of a narrative. Quote the passage, explain it, and tell a specific, personal, life experience that illustrates its significance with respect to identity (your identity).
“I am forever whatever I have been for others, and I may at any time be called to answer for it, no matter how changed I may be now. There is no way of founding my identity, or lack of it, on the psychological continuity or discontinuity of the self. The self inhabits a character whose unity is given as the unity of a character.”
McIntyre’s quote means your identity is judged based on your actions of the past whether good or bad. Your identity is made up of all your past decisions. When he says you have to answer for it he means if someone brings it up you can’t act like it never happened. You need to embrace it because people never forget. People will always judge sometimes only based on the bad things we have done. When he talks about founding your identity he means you cannot figure out who you are if you do not have confidence of yourself. If you are unsure of yourself, your identity will be unsure.
I can relate to this passage because I have been very unsure of myself especially lately. It is hard to find myself as a person when I am unsure of myself. I get stuck in the past sometimes and the decisions I made. Becoming a mom at such a young age, for example, is something that I have been struggling with lately. I chose to get pregnant but it has slowed the process down of getting college finished. It is very hard to focus and stay motivated when a little person needs your attention all the time. This is not to say that I am regretting it in any way but I am just struggling with it at the moment. I am very appreciative of my son and I know how lucky I am to have him. But I also acknowledge that I have some struggles with it. It is also hard seeing people I graduated high school with have already graduated college. If I were to complain about it, people might say well you chose to do it so you have to live with it now. To them I say, I know and I will get it done and finish strong. I will eventually learn to embrace my past.
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